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title: "5 Understand Defeat Quotes by 3 authors"
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> [In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, understand him well enough to defeat him, then in that very moment I…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/orson-scott-card/in-the-moment-when-i-truly-understand-my-enemy-understand-him-well/)

[Orson Scott Card](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/orson-scott-card/)

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> [In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, understand him well enough to defeat him, then in that very moment I…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/orson-scott-card/in-the-moment-when-i-truly-understand-my-enemy-understand-him-well-2/)

[Orson Scott Card](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/orson-scott-card/)

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> [“And it came down to this: In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, understand him well enough to defeat him,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/orson-scott-card/and-it-came-down-to-this-in-the-moment-when-i-truly-understand-my/)

[Orson Scott Card](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/orson-scott-card/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d80/orson-scott-card-134_learning_and-it-came-down-to-this-in-the-moment-w_772214.png)

> [If Mark Zuckerberg doesn't understand something, it's not defeat. It's not even something he has to accept. It's merely a challenge he…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/sarah-lacy/if-mark-zuckerberg-doesn-t-understand-something-it-s-not-defeat-it-s/)

[Sarah Lacy](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/sarah-lacy/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/268/sarah-lacy-12531_accepting_if-mark-zuckerberg-doesn-t-understand-so_2945151.jpg)

> [“In the moment when I truly understand my enemy, understand him well enough to defeat him, then in that very moment I…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/marissa-baker/in-the-moment-when-i-truly-understand-my-enemy-understand-him-well-3/)

[Marissa Baker](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/marissa-baker/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/741/marissa-baker-57461_love_in-the-moment-when-i-truly-understand-my_3098396.jpg)

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