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> [“Our past wounds have a way of shaping our future behavior. The question is―what will you do now? Will you allow your need for control and security to continue to cost you the things you say you want?”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/our-past-wounds-have-a-way-of-shaping-our-future-behavior-the/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

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## More by Tonya Lampley

> [“Love doesn’t always pay attention to the clock. Sometimes it’s quick, and sometimes it’s slow in coming, arriving in its own due season.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/love-doesn-t-always-pay-attention-to-the-clock-sometimes-it-s-quick/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

> [“Some things in life just happen. It’s a waste of energy to keep wondering what happened and why.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/some-things-in-life-just-happen-it-s-a-waste-of-energy-to-keep/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

> [“Life is a summation of the choices we make.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/life-is-a-summation-of-the-choices-we-make/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

> [“By being afraid you only cheat yourself.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/by-being-afraid-you-only-cheat-yourself/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

> [“Having control is an illusion. Yes, you plan. Yes, you calculate the risks, but after you’ve done that, you hold your nose and jump…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/having-control-is-an-illusion-yes-you-plan-yes-you-calculate-the/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

> [“Don’t start doubting who you are and what you’re capable of because things didn’t go exactly the way you anticipated. Your plans have been…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/don-t-start-doubting-who-you-are-and-what-you-re-capable-of-because/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

> [“There will always be a ‘what if,’” she interjected, “in every situation, every scenario.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/there-will-always-be-a-what-if-she-interjected-in-every-situation/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

> [“Our past wounds have a way of shaping our future behavior. The question is―what will you do now? Will you allow your need for…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/our-past-wounds-have-a-way-of-shaping-our-future-behavior-the/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

> [“He was willing to let go and trust that things would work out.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/he-was-willing-to-let-go-and-trust-that-things-would-work-out/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

> [“God is always moving in our lives. Even when it feels like He’s not there, He is. If we learn to surrender and trust,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/god-is-always-moving-in-our-lives-even-when-it-feels-like-he-s-not/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

> [“Does it make sense to lose out on love because you’re trying to protect yourself from something that might never happen? It’s called risk,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/does-it-make-sense-to-lose-out-on-love-because-you-re-trying-to/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

> [“If you’re going to have peace, you have got to learn to trust life. You cannot be in control of everything all the time.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/if-you-re-going-to-have-peace-you-have-got-to-learn-to-trust-life-you/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

> [“Love. It means letting go of always having things the way you want them. It means giving in, if you know it’ll make the…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tonya-lampley/love-it-means-letting-go-of-always-having-things-the-way-you-want/)

[Tonya Lampley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tonya-lampley/)

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