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> [I believe we all have lists of shame. Long lists. We live with our constellation of shames quite privately. But they weigh us down. I wish I could abracadabra away shame. This is such a waste of our small time…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/victoria-redel/i-believe-we-all-have-lists-of-shame-long-lists-we-live-with-our/)

[Victoria Redel](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/victoria-redel/)

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## More by Victoria Redel

> [I'm pretty afraid of death. People have told me that they're not afraid, but I certainly am. The things of the world matter to…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/victoria-redel/i-m-pretty-afraid-of-death-people-have-told-me-that-they-re-not/)

[Victoria Redel](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/victoria-redel/)

> [My mother had a life-altering stroke when I was nineteen and she died when I was twenty-three. I'm now older than my mother when…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/victoria-redel/my-mother-had-a-life-altering-stroke-when-i-was-nineteen-and-she-died/)

[Victoria Redel](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/victoria-redel/)

> [Art Objects is important not only as a plea to the public to read serious literature and to read it seriously, but it is…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/victoria-redel/art-objects-is-important-not-only-as-a-plea-to-the-public-to-read/)

[Victoria Redel](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/victoria-redel/)

> [I believe we all have lists of shame. Long lists. We live with our constellation of shames quite privately. But they weigh us down.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/victoria-redel/i-believe-we-all-have-lists-of-shame-long-lists-we-live-with-our/)

[Victoria Redel](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/victoria-redel/)

> [I love secrets. Here's a bunch of people who think they know each other over a long period of time. And they do. And…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/victoria-redel/i-love-secrets-here-s-a-bunch-of-people-who-think-they-know-each/)

[Victoria Redel](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/victoria-redel/)

> [Once a big loss has happened it is part of the picture forever. Not something you "get over." While each loss has felt specific,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/victoria-redel/once-a-big-loss-has-happened-it-is-part-of-the-picture-forever-not/)

[Victoria Redel](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/victoria-redel/)

> [Oh, for that remarkable and complex economy of motherhood. Those back and forth generosities-where one day a mom ferries the kids to the swim…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/victoria-redel/oh-for-that-remarkable-and-complex-economy-of-motherhood-those-back/)

[Victoria Redel](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/victoria-redel/)

> [“Sometimes I think we need to tell our stories more than anyone needs to hear our stories. Maybe just so that anticipation or happiness…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/victoria-redel/sometimes-i-think-we-need-to-tell-our-stories-more-than-anyone-needs/)

[Victoria Redel](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/victoria-redel/)

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