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title: "2 Shame Occurs Quotes by 2 authors"
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> [“Generally speaking, most of our vital, spontaneous, instinctual life gets shamed. Children are shamed for being too rambunctious, for wanting things and for laughing too loud. Much dysfunctional shame occurs at the dinner table. Children are forced to eat when…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/john-bradshaw/generally-speaking-most-of-our-vital-spontaneous-instinctual-life/)

[John Bradshaw](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/john-bradshaw/)

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> [Shame occurs when you haven't been able to get away with the 'who' you want people to think you are.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/carl-whitaker/shame-occurs-when-you-haven-t-been-able-to-get-away-with-the-who-you/)

[Carl Whitaker](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/carl-whitaker/)

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