--- title: "1 Safe Words Quotes By Laura Antoniou" description: "1 Safe Words quotes by Laura Antoniou. Plus more from Laura Antoniou and more Safe Words sayings from other authors." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0f7/laura-antoniou-50662_bdsm_rules-even-as-the-world-of-phone-and-com_3233995.jpg" --- > [“Rules. Even as the world of phone and computer sex (and dominance) were full of their own rules, so was the new world of doing-it-for real. And some of these new rules, (OK, most of them, Robin admitted) were just…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-antoniou/rules-even-as-the-world-of-phone-and-computer-sex-and-dominance-were/) [Laura Antoniou](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-antoniou/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0f7/laura-antoniou-50662_bdsm_rules-even-as-the-world-of-phone-and-com_3233995.jpg) ## More by Laura Antoniou > [The trouble is, SMers are allowing themselves to be defined by what they are not. We think, "Oh, so many people believe that we're…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-antoniou/the-trouble-is-smers-are-allowing-themselves-to-be-defined-by-what/) [Laura Antoniou](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-antoniou/) > [Fantasies aren't reality, I know, I know, I know. Except when they are. Except when you make them into reality.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-antoniou/fantasies-aren-t-reality-i-know-i-know-i-know-except-when-they-are/) [Laura Antoniou](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-antoniou/) > [What goes on when people overfetishize safety is that they're relapsing into that old frame of mind that what we're doing is bad.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-antoniou/what-goes-on-when-people-overfetishize-safety-is-that-they-re/) [Laura Antoniou](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-antoniou/) > [This used to be about sex. The literature of my people was pornography, filled with cries for mercy, drama enacted on people without prolonged…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-antoniou/this-used-to-be-about-sex-the-literature-of-my-people-was-pornography/) [Laura Antoniou](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-antoniou/) > [A slave's life is mostly composed of patience and study. Yes, study. If not with actual books, then following the example of greater, senior…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-antoniou/a-slave-s-life-is-mostly-composed-of-patience-and-study-yes-study-if/) [Laura Antoniou](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-antoniou/) > [Safe, sane and consensual what do those words really mean? Assimilation, that's what.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-antoniou/safe-sane-and-consensual-what-do-those-words-really-mean-assimilation/) [Laura Antoniou](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-antoniou/) > [“Rules. Even as the world of phone and computer sex (and dominance) were full of their own rules, so was the new world of…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-antoniou/rules-even-as-the-world-of-phone-and-computer-sex-and-dominance-were/) [Laura Antoniou](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-antoniou/) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "ItemList", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/safe-words/laura-antoniou/#itemlist", "name": "1 Safe Words Quotes By Laura Antoniou", "numberOfItems": 1, "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "item": { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "“Rules. Even as the world of phone and computer sex (and dominance) were full of their own rules, so was the new world of doing-it-for real. And some of these new rules, (OK, most of them, Robin admitted) were just as silly as the ones she had learned and followed before. Safe words, for example. 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