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> [I was trying to hold up a mirror to this country, to reflect the past years or so, and the varying degrees in which we've been affected by the war(s) that doesn't seem to end. And we've all been affected…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/i-was-trying-to-hold-up-a-mirror-to-this-country-to-reflect-the-past/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

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## More by Said Sayrafiezadeh

> [The benefit of writing a collection - as opposed to a novel - is that I'm able to have some version of the war…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/the-benefit-of-writing-a-collection-as-opposed-to-a-novel-is-that-i-m/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [I was trying to hold up a mirror to this country, to reflect the past years or so, and the varying degrees in which…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/i-was-trying-to-hold-up-a-mirror-to-this-country-to-reflect-the-past/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [We were poor, my mother and I, living in a world of doom and gloom, pessimism and bitterness, where storms raged and wolves scratched…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/we-were-poor-my-mother-and-i-living-in-a-world-of-doom-and-gloom/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [The difference between our family and other poor families was that my mother actively chose to be poor. She was highly literate, and she…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/the-difference-between-our-family-and-other-poor-families-was-that-my/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [My sister married an American and took his name, and my brother has shortened Sayrafiezadeh to Sayraf. So now he's Jacob Sayraf, or sometimes…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/my-sister-married-an-american-and-took-his-name-and-my-brother-has/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [I sometimes have to write for a while before I figure it out, pretend that I know what I'm doing, sort of like ad-libbing…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/i-sometimes-have-to-write-for-a-while-before-i-figure-it-out-pretend/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [I suppose my Iranian identity is one of the driving forces for being a writer: I want to set the record straight about who…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/i-suppose-my-iranian-identity-is-one-of-the-driving-forces-for-being/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [ \[Ending\] is partly drawn from a desire to shock the audience, to brutally de-romanticize what many Americans think is happening overseas. And partly drawn… ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/ending-is-partly-drawn-from-a-desire-to-shock-the-audience-to/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [My childhood was defined by my father's absence. His presence looms so large. Up until the age of 18, he was a superstar for me.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/my-childhood-was-defined-by-my-father-s-absence-his-presence-looms-so/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [I don't work with an outline, except a vague one in my head, a general idea of character, place, arc... I'm like a composer…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/i-don-t-work-with-an-outline-except-a-vague-one-in-my-head-a-general/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [There's always been something a little pathetic for me at the work parties I've attended, especially thinking back to the restaurants I worked in.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/there-s-always-been-something-a-little-pathetic-for-me-at-the-work/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [My characters are not underachievers; they aspire to great things, but they are limited by the world around them.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/my-characters-are-not-underachievers-they-aspire-to-great-things-but/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [I need to feel as if everything is clean and in its proper place before I can even attempt to write one word. At…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/i-need-to-feel-as-if-everything-is-clean-and-in-its-proper-place/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [But it's hard for me to pinpoint where all my characters and dialogue come from - imagination or real life. My memoir, of course,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/but-it-s-hard-for-me-to-pinpoint-where-all-my-characters-and-dialogue/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

> [I don't feel any ethical dilemma when I write. In my memoir, I was able to write with candor about the two most difficult…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/said-sayrafiezadeh/i-don-t-feel-any-ethical-dilemma-when-i-write-in-my-memoir-i-was-able/)

[Said Sayrafiezadeh](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/said-sayrafiezadeh/)

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