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> [“The mistake we make is in thinking rape isn’t premeditated, that it happens by accident somehow, that you’re drunk and you run…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scaachi-koul/the-mistake-we-make-is-in-thinking-rape-isn-t-premeditated-that-it/)

[Scaachi Koul](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scaachi-koul/)

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> [“And yet, being surveilled with the intention of assault or rape is practically mundane, it happens so often. It’s such an ingrained…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scaachi-koul/and-yet-being-surveilled-with-the-intention-of-assault-or-rape-is/)

[Scaachi Koul](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scaachi-koul/)

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> [“It’s the process of being minimized, invalidated, silenced. It’s the process of being subjected to whatever someone else thinks I owe them.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/agnostic-zetetic/it-s-the-process-of-being-minimized-invalidated-silenced-it-s-the/)

[Agnostic Zetetic](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/agnostic-zetetic/)

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> [“The fact that rape threats are a thing says a lot about how rape isn't a lapse in self-control but often a…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/steph-guthrie/the-fact-that-rape-threats-are-a-thing-says-a-lot-about-how-rape-isn/)

[Steph Guthrie](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/steph-guthrie/)

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> [“Make no mistake, Ms. Lane, I didn’t rape you. You can lie there on your pretty little P.C. ass and claim with…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/karen-marie-moning/make-no-mistake-ms-lane-i-didn-t-rape-you-you-can-lie-there-on-your/)

[Karen Marie Moning](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/karen-marie-moning/)

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