--- title: "14 Mother Quotes By Blanche Wiesen Cook" description: "14 Mother quotes by Blanche Wiesen Cook. Plus more from Blanche Wiesen Cook and more Mother sayings from other authors." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/321/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_agony_i-mean-her-father-was-an-alcoholic-and-h_3226556.jpg" --- > [I mean, her father was an alcoholic, and her mother was the suffering wife of a man who she could never predict…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/i-mean-her-father-was-an-alcoholic-and-her-mother-was-the-suffering/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/321/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_agony_i-mean-her-father-was-an-alcoholic-and-h_3226556.jpg) > [Eleanor Roosevelt started off almost every early article she wrote, starting with, "My mother was the most beautiful woman I'd ever seen."…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/eleanor-roosevelt-started-off-almost-every-early-article-she-wrote/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1e8/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_articles_eleanor-roosevelt-started-off-almost-eve_2448428.png) > [A lot of people say that Eleanor Roosevelt wasn't a good mother. And there are two pieces to that story. One is,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/a-lot-of-people-say-that-eleanor-roosevelt-wasn-t-a-good-mother-and/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/33a/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_eleanor_a-lot-of-people-say-that-eleanor-rooseve_1518631.jpg) > [ And in her \[Eleanor Roosevelt\] letters, she writes the most, you know, fanciful letters: when we are together, and when we are… ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/and-in-her-eleanor-roosevelt-letters-she-writes-the-most-you-know/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/917/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_brother_and-in-her-eleanor-roosevelt-letters-she_2899813.png) > [She writes that one of the moments that she felt most useful was when her mother had a headache, and she would…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/she-writes-that-one-of-the-moments-that-she-felt-most-useful-was-when/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/31d/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_dedicated_she-writes-that-one-of-the-moments-that_2525417.jpg) > [And of course, FDR was very charming. At 6'2", he was tall enough to be her beau, and they made a beautiful…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/and-of-course-fdr-was-very-charming-at-6-2-he-was-tall-enough-to-be/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/062/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_beautiful_and-of-course-fdr-was-very-charming-at-6_949485.jpg) > [And in the same way, FDR's not much of a father. Although the children in all their memoirs really talk about what…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/and-in-the-same-way-fdr-s-not-much-of-a-father-although-the-children/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/429/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_blame_and-in-the-same-way-fdr-s-not-much-of-a_2781850.jpg) > [One of the things for me, as a biographer, that is so significant is for Eleanor Roosevelt - the child who never…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/one-of-the-things-for-me-as-a-biographer-that-is-so-significant-is/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/89f/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_biographers_one-of-the-things-for-me-as-a-biographer_2025966.png) > [Her mother died at the age of 29, essentially turning her face to the wall and deciding to die. And so we…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/her-mother-died-at-the-age-of-29-essentially-turning-her-face-to-the/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/42a/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_abandonment_her-mother-died-at-the-age-of-29-essenti_614759.png) > [Well, when Eleanor Roosevelt's mother dies, she goes to live with her Grandmother Hall. And her Grandmother Hall is in mourning. She's…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/well-when-eleanor-roosevelt-s-mother-dies-she-goes-to-live-with-her/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ccb/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_alcoholics_well-when-eleanor-roosevelt-s-mother-die_292383.png) > [It's right around this time that her Grandmother Hall dies. And Eleanor Roosevelt is responsible for making all the funeral arrangements. And…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/it-s-right-around-this-time-that-her-grandmother-hall-dies-and/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/219/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_arrangements_it-s-right-around-this-time-that-her-gra_2779677.jpg) > [ Her \[Eleanor Roosevelt\] father was the love of her life. Her father always made her feel wanted, made her feel loved, where… ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/her-eleanor-roosevelt-father-was-the-love-of-her-life-her-father/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/8aa/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_comfort_her-eleanor-roosevelt-father-was-the-lov_1830090.png) > [I think that, very often there's a pain that's just too painful to touch. You'll break apart. And I think her mother's…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/i-think-that-very-often-there-s-a-pain-that-s-just-too-painful-to/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/96b/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_abandonment_i-think-that-very-often-there-s-a-pain-t_2221006.png) > [Eleanor Roosevelt never thought that she was attractive. She never thought that she was really sufficiently appealing. And I think her whole…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/eleanor-roosevelt-never-thought-that-she-was-attractive-she-never/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/157/blanche-wiesen-cook-13340_attention_eleanor-roosevelt-never-thought-that-she_1887438.png) ## Other authors on Mother - [ ![](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b013/author-jodi-picoult-50321.jpg) Jodi Picoult 64 quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mother/jodi-picoult/) - [ ![](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b018/author-mother-teresa-69278.jpg) Mother Teresa 61 quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mother/mother-teresa/) - [ ![](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b004/author-amy-tan-12507.jpg) Amy Tan 48 quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mother/amy-tan/) - [ ![](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b022/author-sherrilyn-kenyon-84925.jpg) Sherrilyn Kenyon 45 quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mother/sherrilyn-kenyon/) - [ ![](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b006/author-cassandra-clare-21529.jpg) Cassandra Clare 43 quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mother/cassandra-clare/) - [ ![](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b023/author-suzanne-collins-88237.jpg) Suzanne Collins 37 quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mother/suzanne-collins/) - [ ![](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b001/author-ritu-ghatourey-5.jpg) Ritu Ghatourey 37 quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mother/ritu-ghatourey/) - [ ![](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b009/author-erma-bombeck-33764.jpg) Erma Bombeck 37 quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mother/erma-bombeck/) - [ ![](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b018/author-mitch-albom-68622.jpg) Mitch Albom 34 quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mother/mitch-albom/) - [Maya Angelou 34 quotes](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mother/maya-angelou/) - [ ![](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b021/author-sarah-dessen-83191.jpg) Sarah Dessen 33 quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mother/sarah-dessen/) - [ ![](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b024/author-veronica-roth-93385.jpg) Veronica Roth 32 quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mother/veronica-roth/) ## More by Blanche Wiesen Cook > [Women who love women, who choose women to nurture and support and to create a living environment in which to work creatively and independently,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/women-who-love-women-who-choose-women-to-nurture-and-support-and-to/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [And Grandmother Hall really imagines that she can raise Eleanor and her two brothers differently than these children were raised. And if she is…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/and-grandmother-hall-really-imagines-that-she-can-raise-eleanor-and/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [And you can really see in all of these issues that are priorities for Eleanor Roosevelt, where the compromises are painful, the compromises are…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/and-you-can-really-see-in-all-of-these-issues-that-are-priorities-for/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [Well, when Eleanor Roosevelt's mother dies, she goes to live with her Grandmother Hall. And her Grandmother Hall is in mourning. She's in widow's…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/well-when-eleanor-roosevelt-s-mother-dies-she-goes-to-live-with-her/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [So in 1924, Eleanor Roosevelt really gets a sense of what the limits of the battle and the contours of the battle are going…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/so-in-1924-eleanor-roosevelt-really-gets-a-sense-of-what-the-limits/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [On international relations, Eleanor Roosevelt really takes a great shocking leadership position on the World Court. In fact, it amuses me. The very first…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/on-international-relations-eleanor-roosevelt-really-takes-a-great/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [Her mother died at the age of 29, essentially turning her face to the wall and deciding to die. And so we can only…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/her-mother-died-at-the-age-of-29-essentially-turning-her-face-to-the/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [I think her Grandmother Hall gave her a great sense of family love, and reassurance. Her grandmother did love her, like her father, unconditionally.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/i-think-her-grandmother-hall-gave-her-a-great-sense-of-family-love/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [ But it's also the beginning of another level of liberation for her\]Eleanor Roosevelt\], because when she returns to New York, she gets very involved… ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/but-it-s-also-the-beginning-of-another-level-of-liberation-for-her/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [ And her \[Eleanor Roosevelt\] Grandmother Hall provided her really with a quite wonderful education, and a freedom that, within the framework of Tivoli (which… ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/and-her-eleanor-roosevelt-grandmother-hall-provided-her-really-with-a/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [Eleanor Roosevelt loved to write. She was a wonderful child writer. I mean, she wrote beautiful essays and stories as a child. And Marie…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/eleanor-roosevelt-loved-to-write-she-was-a-wonderful-child-writer-i/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [Eleanor Roosevelt fights for an anti-lynch law with the NAACP, with Walter White and Mary McLeod Bethune. And she begs FDR to say one…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/eleanor-roosevelt-fights-for-an-anti-lynch-law-with-the-naacp-with/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [I think Eleanor Roosevelt always had a most incredible comfort writing letters. I mean, she was in the habit of writing letters. And that's…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/i-think-eleanor-roosevelt-always-had-a-most-incredible-comfort/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [And of course, FDR was very charming. At 6'2", he was tall enough to be her beau, and they made a beautiful couple. And…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/and-of-course-fdr-was-very-charming-at-6-2-he-was-tall-enough-to-be/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) > [Well, the reality of her father was that he was a very diseased alcoholic, who died at the age of 34. And one always…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blanche-wiesen-cook/well-the-reality-of-her-father-was-that-he-was-a-very-diseased/) [Blanche Wiesen Cook](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blanche-wiesen-cook/) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "ItemList", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/mother/blanche-wiesen-cook/#itemlist", "name": "14 Mother Quotes By Blanche Wiesen Cook", "numberOfItems": 14, "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "item": { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "I mean, her father was an alcoholic, and her mother was the suffering wife of a man who she could never predict what he would do, where he would be, who he would be. And it's sort of interesting because Eleanor Roosevelt never writes about her mother's agony. She only writes about her father's agony. 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