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> [But I have learned that you make your own happiness, that part of going for what you want means losing something else. And when the stakes are high, the losses can be that much greater.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/but-i-have-learned-that-you-make-your-own-happiness-that-part-of/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

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## More by Emily Giffin

> [I try to have something in common with my protagonists, especially when I'm writing in the first person.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/i-try-to-have-something-in-common-with-my-protagonists-especially/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [I think exercise is critical to my writing and an essential way to recharge.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/i-think-exercise-is-critical-to-my-writing-and-an-essential-way-to/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [“Grab his penis like this, and I guarantee, it’s a done deal.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/grab-his-penis-like-this-and-i-guarantee-it-s-a-done-deal/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [“Well, anyway… it’s over,” I say, realizing that those two words lump me right in with a hoard of naive women who say it’s…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/well-anyway-it-s-over-i-say-realizing-that-those-two-words-lump-me/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [There are two kinds of sorry. There is the sorry imbued with regret. And a pure sorry. The kind that is merely asking for…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/there-are-two-kinds-of-sorry-there-is-the-sorry-imbued-with-regret/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [Throw in the intensity of emotions that come with that bittersweet summer sandwiched between high school graduation and the rest of your life...](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/throw-in-the-intensity-of-emotions-that-come-with-that-bittersweet/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [“You can never be too sure when it comes to things that matter most”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/you-can-never-be-too-sure-when-it-comes-to-things-that-matter-most/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [“It occurs to me that she is not unique--that all women compare lives. We are aware of whose husband works more, who helps more…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/it-occurs-to-me-that-she-is-not-unique-that-all-women-compare-lives/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [“I desperately want to feel that way again. To be in a relationship that I’m not trying to script or water down. It’s about…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/i-desperately-want-to-feel-that-way-again-to-be-in-a-relationship/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [I always find something in common with my protagonist, particularly when I write in the first person.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/i-always-find-something-in-common-with-my-protagonist-particularly/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [There is no grief like heartbreak.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/there-is-no-grief-like-heartbreak/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [I find my voice and manage to say those three one-syllable words back to him. Words I haven't uttered in a very, very long…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/i-find-my-voice-and-manage-to-say-those-three-one-syllable-words-back/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [i wish i could freeze this moment, somehow delay my final decision, and just hang here in the balance between two places, two worlds,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/i-wish-i-could-freeze-this-moment-somehow-delay-my-final-decision-and/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [I try to write about real women, real people - in other words flawed characters.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/i-try-to-write-about-real-women-real-people-in-other-words-flawed/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

> [“never had a good gut feeling. It wasn’t so much that I didn’t have faith in my team, but that I maintained the truest…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/emily-giffin/never-had-a-good-gut-feeling-it-wasn-t-so-much-that-i-didn-t-have/)

[Emily Giffin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/emily-giffin/)

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