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> [“If you spend time judging and criticizing people, you will not have time to heal from your pain or brokenness. You cannot…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/if-you-spend-time-judging-and-criticizing-people-you-will-not-have/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

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> [“If you don't love yourself, you won't be happy with yourself. If you can't love yourself, you can't love anyone else. You…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/if-you-don-t-love-yourself-you-won-t-be-happy-with-yourself-if-you/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/4d0/kemi-sogunle-38138_giving-love_if-you-don-t-love-yourself-you-won-t-be_887251.jpg)

> [“Pain and love cannot be in the same space. You can never love anyone in pain. You cannot truly love yourself in…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/pain-and-love-cannot-be-in-the-same-space-you-can-never-love-anyone/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

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## Other authors on Loving others

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## More by Kemi Sogunle

> [“What you feed your mind, will lead your life.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/what-you-feed-your-mind-will-lead-your-life/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

> [“The tests we face in life's journey are not to reveal our weaknesses but to help us discover our inner strengths. We can only…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/the-tests-we-face-in-life-s-journey-are-not-to-reveal-our-weaknesses/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

> [“If you spend time judging and criticizing people, you will not have time to heal from your pain or brokenness. You cannot love yourself…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/if-you-spend-time-judging-and-criticizing-people-you-will-not-have/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

> [“You are a light born to shine. You are not who the world thinks you are. You are not what you think you are.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/you-are-a-light-born-to-shine-you-are-not-who-the-world-thinks-you/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

> [“If you don't love yourself, you won't be happy with yourself. If you can't love yourself, you can't love anyone else. You can't give…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/if-you-don-t-love-yourself-you-won-t-be-happy-with-yourself-if-you/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

> [“Every choice starts with a decision. Every decision starts with a thought. Every thought starts with a pre-conceived idea. It is up to you…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/every-choice-starts-with-a-decision-every-decision-starts-with-a/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

> [“You cannot be a light to others or yourself, if you have dark intentions in your heart.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/you-cannot-be-a-light-to-others-or-yourself-if-you-have-dark/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

> [“Every time you mistreat someone, you reveal the part of you that lacks love and needs to heal.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/every-time-you-mistreat-someone-you-reveal-the-part-of-you-that-lacks/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

> [“Your level of ignorance is based on what you believe you know and your ego.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/your-level-of-ignorance-is-based-on-what-you-believe-you-know-and/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

> [“Pain and love cannot be in the same space. You can never love anyone in pain. You cannot truly love yourself in pain. The…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/pain-and-love-cannot-be-in-the-same-space-you-can-never-love-anyone/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

> [“If your level of anger or bitterness is not leading to a change in your life or relationship, it is because your ego is…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/if-your-level-of-anger-or-bitterness-is-not-leading-to-a-change-in/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

> [“You can’t speak life to others if you don’t know how to speak life to yourself. Dead leaves can’t breathe.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kemi-sogunle/you-can-t-speak-life-to-others-if-you-don-t-know-how-to-speak-life-to/)

[Kemi Sogunle](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kemi-sogunle/)

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