--- title: "1 Love Probably Quotes By Laura Wiess" description: "1 Love Probably quotes by Laura Wiess. Plus more from Laura Wiess and more Love Probably sayings from other authors." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7ef/laura-wiess-8970_big-mistake_if-she-d-said-she-loved-me-and-still-did_660994.jpg" --- > [“If she'd said she loved me and still did all those cruel and careless things, would my child mind have decided to accept that as the definition of love? Probably. Would I have ended up believing that love was manipulative…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/if-she-d-said-she-loved-me-and-still-did-all-those-cruel-and-careless/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7ef/laura-wiess-8970_big-mistake_if-she-d-said-she-loved-me-and-still-did_660994.jpg) ## More by Laura Wiess > [“Oh, baby girl," he says with a sigh. "I am so, so sorry.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/oh-baby-girl-he-says-with-a-sigh-i-am-so-so-sorry/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“How about giving your old man a break here, huh, Chirp?" "Chirp is dead," I hear myself say and watch the flat words destroy…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/how-about-giving-your-old-man-a-break-here-huh-chirp-chirp-is-dead-i/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“How can you make someone love you when they won't? And what if that person happens to be your mother?”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/how-can-you-make-someone-love-you-when-they-won-t-and-what-if-that/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“The ache starts in my chest and spreads through my veins. The abuse I can handle; it's the happiness that cripples.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/the-ache-starts-in-my-chest-and-spreads-through-my-veins-the-abuse-i/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“That goes for old wounds, too, you know. I really wish we'd had the chance to talk before this," he says, cracking the window…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/that-goes-for-old-wounds-too-you-know-i-really-wish-we-d-had-the/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“Maybe it's true that shared trauma brings people closer together-a common hardship, a battle to survive-because when times are quiet people relax and go…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/maybe-it-s-true-that-shared-trauma-brings-people-closer-together-a/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“Why should I just sit around hoping it happens when maybe I can do something to make it happen?”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/why-should-i-just-sit-around-hoping-it-happens-when-maybe-i-can-do/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“Oh, there's a wholesome outing.' I say. 'Let's all skip down to the cop shop to register my daddy as a pervert. What fun.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/oh-there-s-a-wholesome-outing-i-say-let-s-all-skip-down-to-the-cop/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“Yeah, I know I've changed. Nothing gets to me anymore. Well, okay, except for stuff in the past. Back then I was all innocent…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/yeah-i-know-i-ve-changed-nothing-gets-to-me-anymore-well-okay-except/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“Silence was the key to self-preservation.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/silence-was-the-key-to-self-preservation/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“Hate the behavior, not the individual.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/hate-the-behavior-not-the-individual/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“We wait to be rescued, but for whatever reason, no one comes. We figure that if no one protects us then we must not…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/we-wait-to-be-rescued-but-for-whatever-reason-no-one-comes-we-figure/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“Ignorance of the outcome doesn't exempt you from the consequences.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/ignorance-of-the-outcome-doesn-t-exempt-you-from-the-consequences/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“And maybe love is terrifying. I'm terrified now, but not in the way she would think. I'm terrified because I hate who she is…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/and-maybe-love-is-terrifying-i-m-terrified-now-but-not-in-the-way-she/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) > [“The distant threat of eternal damnation pales in comparison to the immediate gratification of corrupting young skin.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-wiess/the-distant-threat-of-eternal-damnation-pales-in-comparison-to-the/) [Laura Wiess](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-wiess/) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "ItemList", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/love-probably/laura-wiess/#itemlist", "name": "1 Love Probably Quotes By Laura Wiess", "numberOfItems": 1, "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "item": { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "“If she'd said she loved me and still did all those cruel and careless things, would my child mind have decided to accept that as the definition of love? 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