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title: "2 Love Blame Quotes By Gay Hendricks"
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> [It is not love that is to blame. But each of us has resistance to the very love we desire. We also have resistance to the space and independence we need. So we go back and forth, not letting ourselves…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/it-is-not-love-that-is-to-blame-but-each-of-us-has-resistance-to-the/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

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> [The heart of the matter is that there is nothing the matter with our hearts. It is not love that is to blame. But each of us has resistance to the very love we desire...](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/the-heart-of-the-matter-is-that-there-is-nothing-the-matter-with-our/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

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## More by Gay Hendricks

> [“like my body—I may not control the expiration date, but I can certainly influence the quality of the shelf life.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/like-my-body-i-may-not-control-the-expiration-date-but-i-can/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [The highest goal of spirituality is Self-realization, but what does that mean? It means to feel your Self as a living reality in this…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/the-highest-goal-of-spirituality-is-self-realization-but-what-does/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [I expand in abundance, success and love every day as I inspire those around me to do the same.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/i-expand-in-abundance-success-and-love-every-day-as-i-inspire-those/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [The beauty of the human mind is that any decision that is made can be unmade.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/the-beauty-of-the-human-mind-is-that-any-decision-that-is-made-can-be/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [Are you willing to increase the amount of time every day that you feel good inside?](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/are-you-willing-to-increase-the-amount-of-time-every-day-that-you/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [“Entanglement begins the moment you step out of an equal relationship with your partner and become an advocate for your victimhood.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/entanglement-begins-the-moment-you-step-out-of-an-equal-relationship/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [There's no such thing as a minor lapse of awareness. You're either present with what is--right here, right now--or you're someplace else.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/there-s-no-such-thing-as-a-minor-lapse-of-awareness-you-re-either/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [“Wherever I go, may I learn and love as much as I can in every moment. Wherever I am, may I be open to…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/wherever-i-go-may-i-learn-and-love-as-much-as-i-can-in-every-moment/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [Welcome the back talk, because it's completely natural and normal. It's actually a sign that the new idea you've planted in your mind is…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/welcome-the-back-talk-because-it-s-completely-natural-and-normal-it-s/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [“pausing even for lunch, they turned the car around and headed”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/pausing-even-for-lunch-they-turned-the-car-around-and-headed/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [Genuine love is between two people who know they are already complete. Genuine love is based on a new paradigm in which both partners…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/genuine-love-is-between-two-people-who-know-they-are-already-complete/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [A successful life is an authentic life. Happiness and creativity rest on a foundation of transparency to yourself and others. Knowing your own heart…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/a-successful-life-is-an-authentic-life-happiness-and-creativity-rest/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [As we free our breath through diaphragmatic breathing, we relax our emotions and let go our body tensions.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/as-we-free-our-breath-through-diaphragmatic-breathing-we-relax-our/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [Nobody knows but you what it is that’s sacred to you as far as what you want to manifest in your life. You need…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/nobody-knows-but-you-what-it-is-that-s-sacred-to-you-as-far-as-what/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

> [Many healings of other physical troubles have occurred in my clients after they started to integrate breathing practices into their lives. There is a…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gay-hendricks/many-healings-of-other-physical-troubles-have-occurred-in-my-clients/)

[Gay Hendricks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gay-hendricks/)

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