--- title: "1 Just Mom Quotes By Melanie Benjamin" description: "1 Just Mom quotes by Melanie Benjamin. Plus more from Melanie Benjamin and more Just Mom sayings from other authors." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6b7/melanie-benjamin-4832_children_to-my-children-i-was-just-mom-that-was-a_2904063.png" --- > [“To my children, I was just Mom. That was all. And before that, I had been Charles’s wife, the bereaved mother of the slain child. That was all. But before that, I had been a pilot. An adventurer. I had…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/to-my-children-i-was-just-mom-that-was-all-and-before-that-i-had-been-2/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6b7/melanie-benjamin-4832_children_to-my-children-i-was-just-mom-that-was-a_2904063.png) ## More by Melanie Benjamin > [“Elisabeth was the same as ever, and I was the same as ever around her; no longer a confident college senior, I was diminished…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/elisabeth-was-the-same-as-ever-and-i-was-the-same-as-ever-around-her/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [“Who was this woman before me, her face imprinted with the expectations of others? I was Mom. I was Wife. I was Tragedy. I…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/who-was-this-woman-before-me-her-face-imprinted-with-the-expectations/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [Why were there so many barriers between us, always? Barriers of clothing, of etiquette, of time and age and reason.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/why-were-there-so-many-barriers-between-us-always-barriers-of/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [“my breath sour against my fist, which I still held to my mouth as if this was a sorrow that could be stifled.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/my-breath-sour-against-my-fist-which-i-still-held-to-my-mouth-as-if/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [“And this was the greatest gift that aviation could ever give me; not the sense of freedom but the sense of permanence, coupling, of…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/and-this-was-the-greatest-gift-that-aviation-could-ever-give-me-not/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [“ashamed of it even as I craved it. “Oh, she does! There’s a party tomorrow,”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/ashamed-of-it-even-as-i-craved-it-oh-she-does-there-s-a-party-tomorrow/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [“Now and adult, allowed a glimpse of these first cracks in my family's perfect surface, I couldn't help but wonder what else I didn't…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/now-and-adult-allowed-a-glimpse-of-these-first-cracks-in-my-family-s/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [“To live for oneself is a terrifying prospect; there is comfort in martyrdom... p 364”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/to-live-for-oneself-is-a-terrifying-prospect-there-is-comfort-in/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [“For I can think of no fate drearier than sitting at home...for the rest of my life, watching all of you go off one…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/for-i-can-think-of-no-fate-drearier-than-sitting-at-home-for-the-rest/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [“And this—instead of happiness—would be only what the two of us deserved, after all.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/and-this-instead-of-happiness-would-be-only-what-the-two-of-us/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [“...all his smiles were just a little sad around the edges, as if he knew happiness never could last very long”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/all-his-smiles-were-just-a-little-sad-around-the-edges-as-if-he-knew/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [“And I did not speak German well; I found the language harsh and guttural, my ear simply couldn’t find it pleasing, and so my…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/and-i-did-not-speak-german-well-i-found-the-language-harsh-and/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [“No, this was the career I wanted; a writer could be employed for as long as she could hold a pencil; for as long…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/no-this-was-the-career-i-wanted-a-writer-could-be-employed-for-as/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [Unlike men, women got less sentimental as we aged, I was discovering.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/unlike-men-women-got-less-sentimental-as-we-aged-i-was-discovering/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) > [“His death notice included the mention that in 1880, he had married Alice in Wonderland. I like to think he would have been pleased…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/melanie-benjamin/his-death-notice-included-the-mention-that-in-1880-he-had-married/) [Melanie Benjamin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/melanie-benjamin/) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "ItemList", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/just-mom/melanie-benjamin/#itemlist", "name": "1 Just Mom Quotes By Melanie Benjamin", "numberOfItems": 1, "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "item": { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "“To my children, I was just Mom. That was all. And before that, I had been Charles’s wife, the bereaved mother of the slain child. That was all. But before that, I had been a pilot. An adventurer. I had broken records—but I had forgotten about them. I had steered aircraft—but I didn’t think I would know how to, anymore. 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