--- title: "14 Insecure-women Quotes By Shannon L. Alder" description: "14 Insecure-women quotes by Shannon L. Alder. Plus more from Shannon L. Alder and more Insecure-women sayings from other authors." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7f2/shannon-l-alder-363_anger_bitter-people-are-not-interested-in-what_330169.jpg" --- > [“Bitter people are not interested in what you say, but what you hide.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/bitter-people-are-not-interested-in-what-you-say-but-what-you-hide/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7f2/shannon-l-alder-363_anger_bitter-people-are-not-interested-in-what_330169.jpg) > [“Love has a way of making the sane insane and the insane normal.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/love-has-a-way-of-making-the-sane-insane-and-the-insane-normal/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/68b/shannon-l-alder-363_crazy_love-has-a-way-of-making-the-sane-insane_1391120.jpg) > [“A coward talks to everyone but YOU.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/a-coward-talks-to-everyone-but-you/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5c1/shannon-l-alder-363_anxiety_a-coward-talks-to-everyone-but-you-11472_1147225.jpg) > [“Love may be blind but jealousy has 20-20 vision.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/love-may-be-blind-but-jealousy-has-20-20-vision/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/063/shannon-l-alder-363_anxiety_love-may-be-blind-but-jealousy-has-20-20_636541.jpg) > [“Insecure people often falsify the past, in order to make the future pure.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/insecure-people-often-falsify-the-past-in-order-to-make-the-future/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b10/shannon-l-alder-363_angry-men_insecure-people-often-falsify-the-past-i_1135099.jpg) > [“People that don't know what they are worth will always see their capture's wings, but never their tail.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/people-that-don-t-know-what-they-are-worth-will-always-see-their/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/0b9/shannon-l-alder-363_be-better_people-that-don-t-know-what-they-are-wor_1020650.jpg) > [“People's behaviors are messages, not a diagnosis because I can no longer discern the world's version of insanity.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/people-s-behaviors-are-messages-not-a-diagnosis-because-i-can-no/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/765/shannon-l-alder-363_blaming_people-s-behaviors-are-messages-not-a-di_2395301.jpg) > [“Hypocrisy /hi pakrise/ noun 1. The moment you tell someone it is not important to be right, in order to look right…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/hypocrisy-hi-pakrise-noun-1-the-moment-you-tell-someone-it-is-not/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/39d/shannon-l-alder-363_bickering_hypocrisy-hi-pakrise-noun-1-the-moment-y_1892802.jpg) > [“It is not the hand that rocks the cradle that rules the world; it is the woman that holds the keys to…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/it-is-not-the-hand-that-rocks-the-cradle-that-rules-the-world-it-is/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/1a7/shannon-l-alder-363_betrayal_it-is-not-the-hand-that-rocks-the-cradle_1675907.jpg) > [“I am convinced that the jealous, the angry, the bitter and the egotistical are the first to race to the top of…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/i-am-convinced-that-the-jealous-the-angry-the-bitter-and-the/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/61a/shannon-l-alder-363_anger_i-am-convinced-that-the-jealous-the-angr_1504101.jpg) > [“One of the most powerful lessons in life is to recognize that no one can give you power, and many people don’t…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/one-of-the-most-powerful-lessons-in-life-is-to-recognize-that-no-one/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/db8/shannon-l-alder-363_competition_one-of-the-most-powerful-lessons-in-life_2733061.jpg) > [“Often a woman that doesn’t have any business being in a fight is there because their ego thinks it can mend what…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/often-a-woman-that-doesn-t-have-any-business-being-in-a-fight-is/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/406/shannon-l-alder-363_bickering_often-a-woman-that-doesn-t-have-any-busi_2675089.jpg) > [“Don't waste your time trying to provide people with proof of deceit, in order to keep their love, win their love or…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/don-t-waste-your-time-trying-to-provide-people-with-proof-of-deceit/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7dd/shannon-l-alder-363_accusations_don-t-waste-your-time-trying-to-provide_863508.jpg) > [“Often people that say they “don’t care” actually do. The moment they discuss you with their friends and family, compete with you,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/often-people-that-say-they-don-t-care-actually-do-the-moment-they/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e82/shannon-l-alder-363_anger_often-people-that-say-they-don-t-care-ac_2964380.jpg) ## More by Shannon L. Alder > [“Don’t waste your time trying to explain yourself to people that are committed to misunderstanding you. Instead, commit your time to explaining who they…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/don-t-waste-your-time-trying-to-explain-yourself-to-people-that-are/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“God has a way of picking a “nobody” and turning their world upside down, in order to create a “somebody” that will remove the…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/god-has-a-way-of-picking-a-nobody-and-turning-their-world-upside-down/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“Mental illness is not something you misunderstand in this era. Get educated because bias is no different than racism.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/mental-illness-is-not-something-you-misunderstand-in-this-era-get/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“It takes a female to have a baby, It takes a woman to raise a child, It takes a mother to raise them correctly,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/it-takes-a-female-to-have-a-baby-it-takes-a-woman-to-raise-a-child-it/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/god-is-going-to-send-you-someone-that-will-rescue-you-then-one-day/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after it and…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/you-can-be-bit-in-the-leg-by-a-rattlesnake-and-seek-help-to-heal-your/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“It is not the self respect and pride that you take with you, but the heritage you leave behind to your children that matters.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/it-is-not-the-self-respect-and-pride-that-you-take-with-you-but-the/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“The art of being wise is the art of knowing that solutions don’t come from individuals, but rather experiences.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/the-art-of-being-wise-is-the-art-of-knowing-that-solutions-don-t-come/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/if-you-have-feelings-for-someone-let-them-know-it-doesn-t-matter-if/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/after-every-storm-there-is-a-rainbow-if-you-have-eyes-you-will-find/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/don-t-ever-feel-bad-that-someone-couldn-t-give-you-all-of-their-heart/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“I don't know why anyone would be scared of a homeless person. The truly scary people are all the murder mystery writers. They spend…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/i-don-t-know-why-anyone-would-be-scared-of-a-homeless-person-the/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“Until you have stood in another woman’s stilettos, you will never begin to know the year of pain she felt breaking them in.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/until-you-have-stood-in-another-woman-s-stilettos-you-will-never/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“I don't understand women that call themselves a "bitch". It doesn't empower a woman. Rather, it reveals to everyone that you were deeply hurt…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/i-don-t-understand-women-that-call-themselves-a-bitch-it-doesn-t/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“ The Prodigal Son They gave the deep end of their heart--a hue of crimson red, They whispered their desire and offered up their…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/the-prodigal-son-they-gave-the-deep-end-of-their-heart-a-hue-of/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "ItemList", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/insecure-women/shannon-l-alder/#itemlist", "name": "14 Insecure-women Quotes By Shannon L. Alder", "numberOfItems": 14, "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "item": { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "“Bitter people are not interested in what you say, but what you hide.”", "creator": { "@type": "Person", "name": "Shannon L. 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