--- title: "7 High Reactive Quotes by 1 author" description: "Browse 7 High Reactive quotes by 1 author. Discover the best High Reactive sayings and thoughts." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5c8/susan-cain-647_child_if-a-high-reactive-toddler-breaks-anothe_451676.jpg" --- > [“If a high-reactive toddler breaks another child's toy by mistake, studies show, she often experiences a more intense mix of guilt and…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/susan-cain/if-a-high-reactive-toddler-breaks-another-child-s-toy-by-mistake/) [Susan Cain](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/susan-cain/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5c8/susan-cain-647_child_if-a-high-reactive-toddler-breaks-anothe_451676.jpg) > [“The upsides of the high-reactive temperament have been documented in exciting research that scientists are only now beginning to pull together. One…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/susan-cain/the-upsides-of-the-high-reactive-temperament-have-been-documented-in/) [Susan Cain](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/susan-cain/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f3e/susan-cain-647_nature-of-man_the-upsides-of-the-high-reactive-tempera_751113.jpg) > [“What scientists haven’t realized until recently is that these risk factors have an upside. In other words, the sensitivities and the strengths…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/susan-cain/what-scientists-haven-t-realized-until-recently-is-that-these-risk/) [Susan Cain](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/susan-cain/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a06/susan-cain-647_child-care_what-scientists-haven-t-realized-until-r_1124995.jpg) > [“high-reactive child’s ideal parent: someone who “can read your cues and respect your individuality; is warm and firm in placing demands on…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/susan-cain/high-reactive-child-s-ideal-parent-someone-who-can-read-your-cues-and/) [Susan Cain](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/susan-cain/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6fd/susan-cain-647_academic-achievement_high-reactive-child-s-ideal-parent-someo_1125166.jpg) > [“High-reactive kids also tend to think and feel deeply about what they’ve noticed, and to bring an extra degree of nuance to…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/susan-cain/high-reactive-kids-also-tend-to-think-and-feel-deeply-about-what-they/) [Susan Cain](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/susan-cain/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f85/susan-cain-647_children_high-reactive-kids-also-tend-to-think-an_1194543.jpg) > [“High-reactive children pay what one psychologist calls “alert attention” to people and things. They literally use more eye movements than others to…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/susan-cain/high-reactive-children-pay-what-one-psychologist-calls-alert/) [Susan Cain](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/susan-cain/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e7a/susan-cain-647_children_high-reactive-children-pay-what-one-psyc_1555229.jpg) > [“According to Jay Belsky, a leading proponent of this view and a psychology professor and child care expert at the University of…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/susan-cain/according-to-jay-belsky-a-leading-proponent-of-this-view-and-a/) [Susan Cain](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/susan-cain/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6f3/susan-cain-647_child-care_according-to-jay-belsky-a-leading-propon_2646159.jpg) ## Top authors on High Reactive - [ ![](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/uploads/sms4s/authors/processed/b023/author-susan-cain-88041.jpg) Susan Cain 7 quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/high-reactive/susan-cain/) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "ItemList", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/high-reactive/#itemlist", "name": "High Reactive Quotes", "numberOfItems": 7, "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "item": { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "“If a high-reactive toddler breaks another child's toy by mistake, studies show, she often experiences a more intense mix of guilt and sorrow than a lower-reactive child would. ...but high-reactive kids seem to see and feel things more.”", "creator": { "@type": "Person", "name": "Susan Cain" }, "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/susan-cain/if-a-high-reactive-toddler-breaks-another-child-s-toy-by-mistake/", "image": { "@type": "ImageObject", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5c8/susan-cain-647_child_if-a-high-reactive-toddler-breaks-anothe_451676.jpg", "contentUrl": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5c8/susan-cain-647_child_if-a-high-reactive-toddler-breaks-anothe_451676.jpg", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5c8/susan-cain-647_child_if-a-high-reactive-toddler-breaks-anothe_451676.jpg", "width": 1080, "height": 1080, "caption": "“If a high-reactive toddler breaks another child's toy by mistake, studies show, she often experiences a more…” — Susan Cain", "creditText": "SMS4Smile Quotes", "creator": { "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#organization" } } } }, { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 2, "item": { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "“The upsides of the high-reactive temperament have been documented in exciting research that scientists are only now beginning to pull together. 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