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> [“But it will be harder for you if you remember. Love is always harder. Love means weathering blows for another’s sake and not counting them. Love is loss of self, loss of other, and faith in the death of loss.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/christopher-buehlman/but-it-will-be-harder-for-you-if-you-remember-love-is-always-harder/)

[Christopher Buehlman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/christopher-buehlman/)

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## More by Christopher Buehlman

> [“The world has become a playground of idiots and zealots, where the ever-shrinking centre of reasonable men must work harder and harder to keep…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/christopher-buehlman/the-world-has-become-a-playground-of-idiots-and-zealots-where-the/)

[Christopher Buehlman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/christopher-buehlman/)

> [One of the hardest and truest things a grown-up learns is that sometimes it's not okay.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/christopher-buehlman/one-of-the-hardest-and-truest-things-a-grown-up-learns-is-that/)

[Christopher Buehlman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/christopher-buehlman/)

> [“How easily the paint of civilization peels off with a little bad weather.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/christopher-buehlman/how-easily-the-paint-of-civilization-peels-off-with-a-little-bad/)

[Christopher Buehlman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/christopher-buehlman/)

> [“That was a mean thought, and not funny at all. I let it turn to sand and blow out of my head.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/christopher-buehlman/that-was-a-mean-thought-and-not-funny-at-all-i-let-it-turn-to-sand/)

[Christopher Buehlman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/christopher-buehlman/)

> [“After a pretty man breaks your heart, you're happy for a plain man.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/christopher-buehlman/after-a-pretty-man-breaks-your-heart-you-re-happy-for-a-plain-man/)

[Christopher Buehlman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/christopher-buehlman/)

> [“But it will be harder for you if you remember. Love is always harder. Love means weathering blows for another’s sake and not counting…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/christopher-buehlman/but-it-will-be-harder-for-you-if-you-remember-love-is-always-harder/)

[Christopher Buehlman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/christopher-buehlman/)

> [“A dark-haired little boy just in pants stood bewildered near the blaze, saying, as if there had been some mistake, "We live here. We…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/christopher-buehlman/a-dark-haired-little-boy-just-in-pants-stood-bewildered-near-the/)

[Christopher Buehlman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/christopher-buehlman/)

> [“She had seen him once, smiling a little through another friar’s sermon about Hell, saying after the other left that fear of Hell is…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/christopher-buehlman/she-had-seen-him-once-smiling-a-little-through-another-friar-s-sermon/)

[Christopher Buehlman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/christopher-buehlman/)

> [“The landscape had been so maimed by this new kind of warfare it was as if human architects of great genius had sat down…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/christopher-buehlman/the-landscape-had-been-so-maimed-by-this-new-kind-of-warfare-it-was/)

[Christopher Buehlman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/christopher-buehlman/)

> [ “But when I make a good \[taxidermy\] mount I feel like I beat God in a small way. As though the Almighty said, Let… ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/christopher-buehlman/but-when-i-make-a-good-taxidermy-mount-i-feel-like-i-beat-god-in-a/)

[Christopher Buehlman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/christopher-buehlman/)

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