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title: "21 Feels Quotes By Deb Caletti"
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> [You … You had always made the future feel safe. As long as you were in it too, beside me, I could…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/you-you-had-always-made-the-future-feel-safe-as-long-as-you-were-in/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [I felt a constant, low-flying desperation, the kind you feel when you are trying, trying, trying to get something you will never,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/i-felt-a-constant-low-flying-desperation-the-kind-you-feel-when-you/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [Rejection, though--it could make the loss of someone you weren't even that crazy about feel gut wrenching and world ending.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/rejection-though-it-could-make-the-loss-of-someone-you-weren-t-even/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [she wonders if we feel more regret for the things we do or for the things we didn't do](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/she-wonders-if-we-feel-more-regret-for-the-things-we-do-or-for-the/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [Maybe we all just want to feel special, even for a little while, to be fooled for a bit into feeling something…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/maybe-we-all-just-want-to-feel-special-even-for-a-little-while-to-be/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [Maybe sometimes you just feel like everything can be taken from you all at once.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/maybe-sometimes-you-just-feel-like-everything-can-be-taken-from-you/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [The loneliness you feel with another person, the wrong person, is the loneliest of all.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/the-loneliness-you-feel-with-another-person-the-wrong-person-is-the/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [Maybe I was being too picky. Maybe I didn't want to be close to anyone. Maybe I'd just be the type who…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/maybe-i-was-being-too-picky-maybe-i-didn-t-want-to-be-close-to-anyone/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [I'll tell you one thing about me, and that is that I'm not to keen on being bossed around. If, say, my…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/i-ll-tell-you-one-thing-about-me-and-that-is-that-i-m-not-to-keen-on/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [But then there are the van Goghs and Hemingways and Mozarts, those who feel a hunger so deep, so far down, that…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/but-then-there-are-the-van-goghs-and-hemingways-and-mozarts-those-who/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [And pity--people who inspire it in you are actually very powerful people. To get someone else to take care of you, to…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/and-pity-people-who-inspire-it-in-you-are-actually-very-powerful/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [I don’t know why we insist on pain when pain is so often easy to eliminate. It’s funny the ways we try…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/i-don-t-know-why-we-insist-on-pain-when-pain-is-so-often-easy-to/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [Those questions you have? Whether he's the one, whether you feel about him the way you should, or whether the relationship is…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/those-questions-you-have-whether-he-s-the-one-whether-you-feel-about/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [It was one of those times you feel a sense of loss, even though you didn't have something in the first place.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/it-was-one-of-those-times-you-feel-a-sense-of-loss-even-though-you/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [This is not to say I don’t feel my own grief, which can hit powerfully at unexpected times. It’s just that the…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/this-is-not-to-say-i-don-t-feel-my-own-grief-which-can-hit-powerfully/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [I love to see those paragliders weaving softly around Moon Point, their legs floating above you in the air. When they drift…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/i-love-to-see-those-paragliders-weaving-softly-around-moon-point/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [At the root of every large struggle in life is the need to be honest about something that we do not feel…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/at-the-root-of-every-large-struggle-in-life-is-the-need-to-be-honest-2/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [Here, kitty, kitty, Chico says. The cover of his cage is still on, making his tiny clown voice slightly muffled. I feel…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/here-kitty-kitty-chico-says-the-cover-of-his-cage-is-still-on-making/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [A person shows signs of clutching on too fast, of being needy, of not hearing the word "no," of jealousy, of guarding…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/a-person-shows-signs-of-clutching-on-too-fast-of-being-needy-of-not/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [You wouldn't match Melanie and me up, and if we hadn't gotten stuck together as lab partners in junior high science, I…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/you-wouldn-t-match-melanie-and-me-up-and-if-we-hadn-t-gotten-stuck/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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> [We look down our noses at people who've made mistakes in relationships. She's so stupid! How could she do that! Our superiority…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/we-look-down-our-noses-at-people-who-ve-made-mistakes-in/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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## Other authors on Feels

## More by Deb Caletti

> [“More, much more, will happen after this. Things involving maps and books and true love and tragedy, tragedy like you wouldn't believe. But fine…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/more-much-more-will-happen-after-this-things-involving-maps-and-books/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [“Hannah and Kayla are talking without saying anything. Their conversation goes like this: Hannah: Uh-huh. Kayla: It was like, ugh! Hannah: I know. Kayla:…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/hannah-and-kayla-are-talking-without-saying-anything-their/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [Another person is, at the heart of it, unknowable. And if you cannot know a person enough to always guess what they’re capable of,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/another-person-is-at-the-heart-of-it-unknowable-and-if-you-cannot/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [That's what people do who love you. They put their arms around you and love you when you're not so lovable.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/that-s-what-people-do-who-love-you-they-put-their-arms-around-you-and/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [If fate is a shape-shifter, then loves is too. It can be, anyway, in its most dangerous form. It´s your best day and then…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/if-fate-is-a-shape-shifter-then-loves-is-too-it-can-be-anyway-in-its/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [If you don't participate, you're just taking up oxygen. (Bunny) Life is a banquet. Approach it with hunger. (Chuck)](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/if-you-don-t-participate-you-re-just-taking-up-oxygen-bunny-life-is-a/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [“You wanted more from people sometimes. And sometimes,you wanted more from yourself.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/you-wanted-more-from-people-sometimes-and-sometimes-you-wanted-more/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [Because that’s how it works after something terrible has happened. You know this is true if something terrible has ever happened to you. A…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/because-that-s-how-it-works-after-something-terrible-has-happened-you/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [“Good guy. There was efficiency to male language. Those two words were what guys said about other guys that they really respected. Guys they…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/good-guy-there-was-efficiency-to-male-language-those-two-words-were/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [“In a world of insanity, nothing is sacred. It's an insane world, nothing is sacred.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/in-a-world-of-insanity-nothing-is-sacred-it-s-an-insane-world-nothing/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [“And because he was nice in the beginning did not mean he was a good man.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/and-because-he-was-nice-in-the-beginning-did-not-mean-he-was-a-good/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [“I like those very realistic paintings that look like photographs, or novels that are so much like actual life that you feel understood.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/i-like-those-very-realistic-paintings-that-look-like-photographs-or/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [This is what happens when nice people are pushed too far. We give too many chances, and so when we've finally had enough, we…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/this-is-what-happens-when-nice-people-are-pushed-too-far-we-give-too/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [“I confess I had a Child of Divorce Reunion Fantasy Number One Thousand, where I for a moment imagined my father finding out that…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/i-confess-i-had-a-child-of-divorce-reunion-fantasy-number-one/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

> [so what brings you to the doctor today?" "hmm, im afraid i have the chronic desire to save people" "i know about that. i've…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/deb-caletti/so-what-brings-you-to-the-doctor-today-hmm-im-afraid-i-have-the/)

[Deb Caletti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/deb-caletti/)

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                        "text": "Here, kitty, kitty, Chico says. The cover of his cage is still on, making his tiny clown voice slightly muffled. I feel bad for him under there, just waiting to start his evil little day...Freud walks toward Chico in his slinky fashion, sits under his cage and just stares. We have satanic pets...our pets seem to have made a pact with the devil.",
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