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> [“I look in the mirror through the eyes of the child that was me.” ~ Judy Collins”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/i-look-in-the-mirror-through-the-eyes-of-the-child-that-was-me-judy/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

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## More by Kathy Obear

> [“Unfortunately, once we have reacted, there is no way to undo our impact.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/unfortunately-once-we-have-reacted-there-is-no-way-to-undo-our-impact/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“When our feelings are extremely high, we probably shouldn’t trust our initial perceptions or thoughts. If we have an intense, disproportionate reaction, it is…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/when-our-feelings-are-extremely-high-we-probably-shouldn-t-trust-our/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“While I may not appreciate someone’s actions in the moment, it is useful to try to understand and relate to the possible underlying reasons…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/while-i-may-not-appreciate-someone-s-actions-in-the-moment-it-is/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“The ability to observe without evaluation is the highest form of intelligence.” ~ Jiddu Krishnamurti”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/the-ability-to-observe-without-evaluation-is-the-highest-form-of/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“We can also use The Cycle as we anticipate how we may feel triggered in future situations. We can imagine how we might typically…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/we-can-also-use-the-cycle-as-we-anticipate-how-we-may-feel-triggered/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“We either make ourselves miserable or we make ourselves strong. The amount of work is the same.” ~ Carlos Castaneda”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/we-either-make-ourselves-miserable-or-we-make-ourselves-strong-the/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“What happened? What were you feeling and thinking? On the -10 to +10 Scale, how intense were your emotions? How did you react? (fight,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/what-happened-what-were-you-feeling-and-thinking-on-the-10-to-10/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“However, in my experience, it takes significant skill to be grounded enough to intentionally choose effective responses. And one of the biggest obstacles is…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/however-in-my-experience-it-takes-significant-skill-to-be-grounded/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“The young child asked, “Which one will win the fight?” And the grandfather replied, “Whichever one you feed.” If we replay and obsess about…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/the-young-child-asked-which-one-will-win-the-fight-and-the/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“Keep a list in your journal of all the ways you have responded productively in difficult situations, as well as the impact your response…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/keep-a-list-in-your-journal-of-all-the-ways-you-have-responded/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“We “create our own reality” by how we choose to make meaning and interpret situations we encounter. Our story creates our feelings, the physiological…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/we-create-our-own-reality-by-how-we-choose-to-make-meaning-and/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“If she had, instead, assumed that her colleague was being curious, possibly wanting to know what he needed to do to be selected for…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/if-she-had-instead-assumed-that-her-colleague-was-being-curious/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“Whenever you are about to find fault with someone, ask yourself the following question: What fault of mine most nearly resembles the one I…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/whenever-you-are-about-to-find-fault-with-someone-ask-yourself-the-2/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“my mentor and co-teacher lovingly gave me some feedback and told me that my content was useful but the way I engaged the participants…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/my-mentor-and-co-teacher-lovingly-gave-me-some-feedback-and-told-me/)

[Kathy Obear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kathy-obear/)

> [“Holding On, Letting Go,” that was offered through the National Training Laboratory (NTL).”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kathy-obear/holding-on-letting-go-that-was-offered-through-the-national-training/)

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