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title: "3 Expectations Learned Quotes by 3 authors"
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> [“I'd become more adept at being with other people; I'd lowered my expectations of them and learned to let my mind drift…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/sebastian-faulks/i-d-become-more-adept-at-being-with-other-people-i-d-lowered-my/)

[Sebastian Faulks](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/sebastian-faulks/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/46a/sebastian-faulks-2661_psychology_i-d-become-more-adept-at-being-with-othe_552115.jpg)

> [“I guess I felt like the reason I was so hurt afterward was because I'd gotten carried away, started thinking too far…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/jack-cheng/i-guess-i-felt-like-the-reason-i-was-so-hurt-afterward-was-because-i/)

[Jack Cheng](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/jack-cheng/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/295/jack-cheng-30237_pain-and-suffering_i-guess-i-felt-like-the-reason-i-was-so_1284677.jpg)

> [“I am the one who knows better than to ask for help. I am the one who picked up the pieces, the…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/i-am-the-one-who-knows-better-than-to-ask-for-help-i-am-the-one-who/)

[Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ee3/anonymous-1_ask-for-help_i-am-the-one-who-knows-better-than-to-as_1286016.jpg)

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