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title: "8 Desire Control Quotes by 8 authors"
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> [“Desire is naughty and doesn't conform to our ideals, which is why we have such a need of them. Desire mocks all…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/hanif-kureishi/desire-is-naughty-and-doesn-t-conform-to-our-ideals-which-is-why-we/)

[Hanif Kureishi](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/hanif-kureishi/)

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> [When you relinquish the desire to control your future, you can have more happiness.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/nicole-kidman/when-you-relinquish-the-desire-to-control-your-future-you-can-have/)

[Nicole Kidman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/nicole-kidman/)

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> [There is a very Simple Secret to being happy. Just let go of your 'demand' on this moment. Any time you have…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/adyashanti/there-is-a-very-simple-secret-to-being-happy-just-let-go-of-your/)

[Adyashanti](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/adyashanti/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ce8/adyashanti-1169_arguing_there-is-a-very-simple-secret-to-being-h_564941.jpg)

> [“Now is the only time you have. Change is happening. Give up your desire to control the world”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kelly-martin/now-is-the-only-time-you-have-change-is-happening-give-up-your-desire/)

[Kelly Martin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kelly-martin/)

[Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/184/kelly-martin-22284_change_now-is-the-only-time-you-have-change-is_881535.jpg)

> [In these times - where social appearance is more important than spiritual substance - what has become our longing to change is…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/guy-finley/in-these-times-where-social-appearance-is-more-important-than/)

[Guy Finley](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/guy-finley/)

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> [It is hard to fight desire; but to control it is the sign of a reasonable man.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/democritus/it-is-hard-to-fight-desire-but-to-control-it-is-the-sign-of-a/)

[Democritus](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/democritus/)

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> [Most human beings, though in varying degrees, desire to control, not only their own lives but also the lives of others](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/bertrand-russell/most-human-beings-though-in-varying-degrees-desire-to-control-not/)

[Bertrand Russell](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/bertrand-russell/)

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> [“By giving us control, our new technologies tend to enhance existing idols in our lives. Instead of becoming more like Christ through…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tim-challies/by-giving-us-control-our-new-technologies-tend-to-enhance-existing/)

[Tim Challies](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tim-challies/)

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