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> [“You have to be able to spend time alone, to be able to not be defined by another person, but to define yourself. Yet, at the same time, don't shut out people or experiences, let them in, and swallow them…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/you-have-to-be-able-to-spend-time-alone-to-be-able-to-not-be-defined/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

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## More by Tabatha Beshears

> [“There were exceptions though. There are always exceptions.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/there-were-exceptions-though-there-are-always-exceptions/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“I began the process of putting myself back together again.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/i-began-the-process-of-putting-myself-back-together-again/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“I didn't want it to be something weird, but of course, with most things in my life, it became something weird.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/i-didn-t-want-it-to-be-something-weird-but-of-course-with-most-things/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“You have to be able to spend time alone, to be able to not be defined by another person, but to define yourself. Yet,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/you-have-to-be-able-to-spend-time-alone-to-be-able-to-not-be-defined/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“There is something empowering about being gutted out with an ice pick until there is nothing but skin and bones left of your being.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/there-is-something-empowering-about-being-gutted-out-with-an-ice-pick/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“Sometimes you just had to trust your instincts.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/sometimes-you-just-had-to-trust-your-instincts/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“I found what I love to do. I found myself.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/i-found-what-i-love-to-do-i-found-myself/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“Like, I don't know, being in here, it's like a wake-up call. It's like, this could be you. You could be dead. But, you're…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/like-i-don-t-know-being-in-here-it-s-like-a-wake-up-call-it-s-like/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“People tended to drain me, and I needed my alone time to fill myself back up.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/people-tended-to-drain-me-and-i-needed-my-alone-time-to-fill-myself/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“Try it. Try not talking bad about someone. Try only talking about the positive. Try only talking about things you love instead of things…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/try-it-try-not-talking-bad-about-someone-try-only-talking-about-the/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“You quit, I quit, right?”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/you-quit-i-quit-right/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“Even the strongest people break sometimes though. There are only so many times you can smash a bat into bone before the bone breaks.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/even-the-strongest-people-break-sometimes-though-there-are-only-so/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“No matter how much you give up for someone, how much you sacrifice for someone, how much you give to someone, it will never…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/no-matter-how-much-you-give-up-for-someone-how-much-you-sacrifice-for/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“I'm always missing something. I'm missing something, or someplace, or someone. Life was this constant string of missing.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/i-m-always-missing-something-i-m-missing-something-or-someplace-or/)

[Tabatha Beshears](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tabatha-beshears/)

> [“I'll see you when I see you.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tabatha-beshears/i-ll-see-you-when-i-see-you/)

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