--- title: "1 Deep pain Quotes By Swami Dhyan Giten" description: "1 Deep pain quotes by Swami Dhyan Giten. Plus more from Swami Dhyan Giten and more Deep pain sayings from other authors." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/772/swami-dhyan-giten-2923_aloeness_deathaloneness-has-been-my-constant-comp_980398.jpg" --- > [“deathAloneness has been my constant companion in life. I lost early the people that I loved: first when my young and unmarried biological mother had to leave me because of outer circumstances. I was adopted by a very loving couple,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/swami-dhyan-giten/deathaloneness-has-been-my-constant-companion-in-life-i-lost-early/) [Swami Dhyan Giten](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/swami-dhyan-giten/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/772/swami-dhyan-giten-2923_aloeness_deathaloneness-has-been-my-constant-comp_980398.jpg) ## More by Swami Dhyan Giten > [“Enlightenment is a paradoxical phenomenon. 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What we need to do is to open our heart and release…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/swami-dhyan-giten/love-is-the-most-valuable-gift-we-can-give-to-another-person-what-we/) [Swami Dhyan Giten](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/swami-dhyan-giten/) > [“Healing is to be in the light of our own consciousness. Healing is an inner light, which exist as a natural radiance around a…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/swami-dhyan-giten/healing-is-to-be-in-the-light-of-our-own-consciousness-healing-is-an/) [Swami Dhyan Giten](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/swami-dhyan-giten/) > [“Life is really very simple. 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This created such a pain in me that I simply repressed the pain for many years in order to survive. These early meetings with death also created a thirst in me to discover a quality, an inner awareness, that death could not take away. Now I can see that these early painful experiences are a blessing in disguise. It liberated me from relationships. I relate with people, but there is always an aloneness within me. I realize that a seeker of truth needs to accept that he is totally alone. It is not possible to lean on other people like crutches. When we totally accept our aloneness, it becomes a source of love, joy, truth, silence, meditation and wholeness. I shared these experiences with a beloved friend and her thoughtful comment was: “I have my own aloneness.” Aloneness is to be at home in ourselves, to be in contact with our inner source of love, while loneliness is to hanker for other people, to hanker for a source of love outside of ourselves. 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