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> [“WE EXPECT COUNSELING centers with their commitments to healing and their high degree of training to be community oases. When those values are violated, it strikes us as very strange. Other organizations dealing with social breakdown and crime often hire…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/we-expect-counseling-centers-with-their-commitments-to-healing-and/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

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> [I have been doing marriage counseling for about 15 years and I realized that what makes one person feel loved, doesn't make another person feel loved.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/i-have-been-doing-marriage-counseling-for-about-15-years-and-i/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

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## Other authors on Counseling

- [asa don brown 7 quotes](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/counseling/asa-don-brown/)

## More by Gary Chapman

> [Marriages are always moving from one season to another. Sometimes we find ourselves in winter--discouraged, detached, and dissatisfied; other times we experience springtime, with…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/marriages-are-always-moving-from-one-season-to-another-sometimes-we/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [Something in our nature cries out to be loved by another. Isolation is devastating to the human psyche. That is why solitary confinement is…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/something-in-our-nature-cries-out-to-be-loved-by-another-isolation-is/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [Most of us have more potential than we will ever develop. What holds us back is often a lack of courage.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/most-of-us-have-more-potential-than-we-will-ever-develop-what-holds/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [On the other hand, if I walk in the house, I don't even bother to find her, I just walk in the den and…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/on-the-other-hand-if-i-walk-in-the-house-i-don-t-even-bother-to-find/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [“I look for three things in hiring people. The first is personal integrity, the second is intelligence, and the third is a high energy…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/i-look-for-three-things-in-hiring-people-the-first-is-personal/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [Love is always freely given. Love cannot be demanded. We can request things of each other, but we must never demand anything. Requests give…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/love-is-always-freely-given-love-cannot-be-demanded-we-can-request/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [“Psychologist William James said that possibly the deepest human need is the need to feel appreciated.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/psychologist-william-james-said-that-possibly-the-deepest-human-need/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [I think that in today's world, by nature, we are all self-centered. And that often leads to selfishness.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/i-think-that-in-today-s-world-by-nature-we-are-all-self-centered-and/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [Sometimes when the spouse is really the culprit, it is hard to admit what you consider your little failures, but if you are going…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/sometimes-when-the-spouse-is-really-the-culprit-it-is-hard-to-admit/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [“There is a third truth, which only the mature lover will be able to hear. My spouse’s criticisms about my behavior provide me with…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/there-is-a-third-truth-which-only-the-mature-lover-will-be-able-to/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [ The getting out part \[of advise\] may well be true. Because if you have tried the tender love thing... typically the abuser is not… ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/the-getting-out-part-of-advise-may-well-be-true-because-if-you-have/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [ I wrote this book \[ Desperate Marriages\] because of my own marriage. My wife and I struggled greatly in the early years of marriage.… ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/i-wrote-this-book-desperate-marriages-because-of-my-own-marriage-my/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [As a senior in high school, I had a strong sense that God wanted me in some kind of ministry.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/as-a-senior-in-high-school-i-had-a-strong-sense-that-god-wanted-me-in/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [We all desperately need love. If a spouse in a difficult marriage will learn the love language of that spouse, and they will, with…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/we-all-desperately-need-love-if-a-spouse-in-a-difficult-marriage-will/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

> [“If acts of service do not come naturally for you, it is still a love language worth acquiring. It is a way of expressing…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/gary-chapman/if-acts-of-service-do-not-come-naturally-for-you-it-is-still-a-love/)

[Gary Chapman](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/gary-chapman/)

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