--- title: "9 Blaming Quotes By Shannon L. Alder" description: "9 Blaming quotes by Shannon L. Alder. Plus more from Shannon L. Alder and more Blaming sayings from other authors." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/69f/shannon-l-alder-363_abuse_the-only-person-that-deserves-a-special_1408047.jpg" --- > [“The only person that deserves a special place in your life is someone that never made you feel like you were an…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/the-only-person-that-deserves-a-special-place-in-your-life-is-someone/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/69f/shannon-l-alder-363_abuse_the-only-person-that-deserves-a-special_1408047.jpg) > [“People's behaviors are messages, not a diagnosis because I can no longer discern the world's version of insanity.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/people-s-behaviors-are-messages-not-a-diagnosis-because-i-can-no/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/765/shannon-l-alder-363_blaming_people-s-behaviors-are-messages-not-a-di_2395301.jpg) > [“Humility is the only thing that can restore a relationship, when respect has been lost.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/humility-is-the-only-thing-that-can-restore-a-relationship-when/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/7bc/shannon-l-alder-363_blaming_humility-is-the-only-thing-that-can-rest_2522975.jpg) > [“When the person you love can't see your love for them beneath the painful things you say when they reject you, remember…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/when-the-person-you-love-can-t-see-your-love-for-them-beneath-the/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/20c/shannon-l-alder-363_attention-seeking_when-the-person-you-love-can-t-see-your_2009131.jpg) > [People that have trust issues only need to look in the mirror. There they will meet the one person that will betray…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/people-that-have-trust-issues-only-need-to-look-in-the-mirror-there/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fa7/shannon-l-alder-363_betray_people-that-have-trust-issues-only-need_1626893.jpg) > [“Don’t ever let your spouse or partner blame an outside person or persons for the ruin of your relationship or their past…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/don-t-ever-let-your-spouse-or-partner-blame-an-outside-person-or/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/945/shannon-l-alder-363_blaming_don-t-ever-let-your-spouse-or-partner-bl_1259789.jpg) > [“True saddness is when someone still thinks your the same person after all these years. They brand you because of their own…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/true-saddness-is-when-someone-still-thinks-your-the-same-person-after/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/27e/shannon-l-alder-363_assuming_true-saddness-is-when-someone-still-thin_2985846.jpg) > [“God told us to love everyone. However, when you don’t like someone then you need to walk away and focus not on…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/god-told-us-to-love-everyone-however-when-you-don-t-like-someone-then/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/f07/shannon-l-alder-363_anger_god-told-us-to-love-everyone-however-whe_2071147.jpg) > [“They will hate you if you are beautiful. They will hate you if you are successful. They will hate you if you…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/they-will-hate-you-if-you-are-beautiful-they-will-hate-you-if-you-are/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/320/shannon-l-alder-363_abuse_they-will-hate-you-if-you-are-beautiful_1027933.jpg) ## More by Shannon L. Alder > [“Don’t waste your time trying to explain yourself to people that are committed to misunderstanding you. Instead, commit your time to explaining who they…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/don-t-waste-your-time-trying-to-explain-yourself-to-people-that-are/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“God has a way of picking a “nobody” and turning their world upside down, in order to create a “somebody” that will remove the…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/god-has-a-way-of-picking-a-nobody-and-turning-their-world-upside-down/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“Mental illness is not something you misunderstand in this era. Get educated because bias is no different than racism.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/mental-illness-is-not-something-you-misunderstand-in-this-era-get/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“It takes a female to have a baby, It takes a woman to raise a child, It takes a mother to raise them correctly,…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/it-takes-a-female-to-have-a-baby-it-takes-a-woman-to-raise-a-child-it/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/god-is-going-to-send-you-someone-that-will-rescue-you-then-one-day/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after it and…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/you-can-be-bit-in-the-leg-by-a-rattlesnake-and-seek-help-to-heal-your/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“It is not the self respect and pride that you take with you, but the heritage you leave behind to your children that matters.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/it-is-not-the-self-respect-and-pride-that-you-take-with-you-but-the/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“The art of being wise is the art of knowing that solutions don’t come from individuals, but rather experiences.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/the-art-of-being-wise-is-the-art-of-knowing-that-solutions-don-t-come/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/if-you-have-feelings-for-someone-let-them-know-it-doesn-t-matter-if/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/after-every-storm-there-is-a-rainbow-if-you-have-eyes-you-will-find/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/don-t-ever-feel-bad-that-someone-couldn-t-give-you-all-of-their-heart/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“I don't know why anyone would be scared of a homeless person. The truly scary people are all the murder mystery writers. They spend…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/i-don-t-know-why-anyone-would-be-scared-of-a-homeless-person-the/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“Until you have stood in another woman’s stilettos, you will never begin to know the year of pain she felt breaking them in.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/until-you-have-stood-in-another-woman-s-stilettos-you-will-never/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“I don't understand women that call themselves a "bitch". It doesn't empower a woman. Rather, it reveals to everyone that you were deeply hurt…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/i-don-t-understand-women-that-call-themselves-a-bitch-it-doesn-t/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) > [“ The Prodigal Son They gave the deep end of their heart--a hue of crimson red, They whispered their desire and offered up their…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/shannon-l-alder/the-prodigal-son-they-gave-the-deep-end-of-their-heart-a-hue-of/) [Shannon L. Alder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shannon-l-alder/) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "ItemList", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/blaming/shannon-l-alder/#itemlist", "name": "9 Blaming Quotes By Shannon L. 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