--- title: "1 Abuser Quotes By Meena Kandasamy" description: "1 Abuser quotes by Meena Kandasamy. Plus more from Meena Kandasamy and more Abuser sayings from other authors." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d1f/meena-kandasamy-73353_abuser_what-you-went-through-is-horrible-i-m-no_3020745.jpg" --- > [“What you went through is horrible. I'm not disputing it.' 'Okay. So?' 'Just that this man whom you depicted—it was like he was a monster. The sum total of all the evil things in the world.' 'No, I never said…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/meena-kandasamy/what-you-went-through-is-horrible-i-m-not-disputing-it-okay-so-just/) Meena Kandasamy [Image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d1f/meena-kandasamy-73353_abuser_what-you-went-through-is-horrible-i-m-no_3020745.jpg) ## Other authors on Abuser - [Lundy Bancroft 18 quotes](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/abuser/lundy-bancroft/) - [Shannon Thomas 16 quotes](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/abuser/shannon-thomas/) ## More by Meena Kandasamy > [“It seemed as if the people of our nation had decided - or, as if it had been decided on behalf of the people…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/meena-kandasamy/it-seemed-as-if-the-people-of-our-nation-had-decided-or-as-if-it-had/) Meena Kandasamy > [“This One True Love—which flourished for two, three years—left me wounded. I spent months scooped in bed, howling my heart out. In learning to…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/meena-kandasamy/this-one-true-love-which-flourished-for-two-three-years-left-me/) Meena Kandasamy > [“Of all the things we could have said to the people of other planets, we chose to fire into space a capsule containing the…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/meena-kandasamy/of-all-the-things-we-could-have-said-to-the-people-of-other-planets/) Meena Kandasamy > [“What you went through is horrible. I'm not disputing it.' 'Okay. So?' 'Just that this man whom you depicted—it was like he was a…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/meena-kandasamy/what-you-went-through-is-horrible-i-m-not-disputing-it-okay-so-just/) Meena Kandasamy ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "ItemList", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/abuser/meena-kandasamy/#itemlist", "name": "1 Abuser Quotes By Meena Kandasamy", "numberOfItems": 1, "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "item": { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "“What you went through is horrible. I'm not disputing it.' 'Okay. So?' 'Just that this man whom you depicted—it was like he was a monster. The sum total of all the evil things in the world.' 'No, I never said that.' 'But that's how it came across.' 'That's not what I intended. It was his violence. That's all.' Here's a friend asking me if there was nothing redeemable about my ex-husband. I do not know how to justify myself. What do I tell people like him, who want a balanced picture, who want to know that this was a real person with a rainbow side, just so that they are reminded of their own humanity? I realize that this is the curse of victimhood, to feel compelled to lend an appropriate colour of goodness to their abuser.”", "creator": { "@type": "Person", "name": "Meena Kandasamy" }, "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/meena-kandasamy/what-you-went-through-is-horrible-i-m-not-disputing-it-okay-so-just/", "image": { "@type": "ImageObject", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d1f/meena-kandasamy-73353_abuser_what-you-went-through-is-horrible-i-m-no_3020745.jpg", "contentUrl": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d1f/meena-kandasamy-73353_abuser_what-you-went-through-is-horrible-i-m-no_3020745.jpg", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d1f/meena-kandasamy-73353_abuser_what-you-went-through-is-horrible-i-m-no_3020745.jpg", "width": 1080, "height": 1080, "caption": "“What you went through is horrible. 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