--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I can't do this Ash. It's killing me…" description: "\"I can't do this Ash. It's killing me. Having you this close and not touching you is driving me insane. You're his Ash. You're his. You made your choice..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6fd/abbi-glines-421_ashes_i-can-t-do-this-ash-it-s-killing-me-havi_2771260.jpg" --- # I can't do this Ash. It's killing me. Having you this… ![“I can't do this Ash. It's killing me. Having you this close and not touching you is driving me insane. You're his Ash. You're his. You made your choice and I understand why you chose him. I don't hold it against you but dammit Ash it hurts” quote by Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6fd/abbi-glines-421_ashes_i-can-t-do-this-ash-it-s-killing-me-havi_2771260.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6fd/abbi-glines-421_ashes_i-can-t-do-this-ash-it-s-killing-me-havi_2771260.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6fd/abbi-glines-421_ashes_i-can-t-do-this-ash-it-s-killing-me-havi_2771260.jpg) > “I can't do this Ash. It's killing me. Having you this close and not touching you is driving me insane. You're his Ash. You're his. You made your choice and I understand why you chose him. I don't hold it against you but dammit Ash it hurts” [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. A character struggles with unrequited love and emotional pain, acknowledging the other's choice. **In simple terms:** Unrequited love hurts deeply. Key Takeaway Accept pain and move forward. Themes love pain choice relationships Mood sorrowful reflective Type dramatic emotional When to use this quote - breakup - personal growth Key Concepts unrequited love emotional turmoil acceptance Questions to Reflect On - How do you cope with loving someone unavailable? - What boundaries help heal emotional pain? 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I can…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/terry-bradshaw/you-can-t-dodge-them-all-i-got-hammered-plenty-of-times-through-the/) [Terry Bradshaw](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/terry-bradshaw/) > [Never threaten, because a threat is a promise to pay that it isn't always convenient to meet, but if you don't make it good…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/george-horace-lorimer/never-threaten-because-a-threat-is-a-promise-to-pay-that-it-isn-t/) [George Horace Lorimer](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/george-horace-lorimer/) > [I don't think that a company should own a studio and the network, and program for their own network. It hurts the creativity -…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/scott-bakula/i-don-t-think-that-a-company-should-own-a-studio-and-the-network-and/) [Scott Bakula](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/scott-bakula/) > [It hurt, of course, but more often than not the best things do, I've found.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/stephen-king/it-hurt-of-course-but-more-often-than-not-the-best-things-do-i-ve/) [Stephen King](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/stephen-king/) ## More by Abbi Glines > [I dropped my phone on the floor and let the pain assail me. I'd given my heart away to someone who didn't want it.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/i-dropped-my-phone-on-the-floor-and-let-the-pain-assail-me-i-d-given/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [I want to be with you.” My words brought a hugegrin to his incredibly beautiful face. “You’re my present and my future,Sadie, I will…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/i-want-to-be-with-you-my-words-brought-a-hugegrin-to-his-incredibly/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [“You gonna keep her under the stairs like Harry fucking Potter?”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/you-gonna-keep-her-under-the-stairs-like-harry-fucking-potter/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [You only deserve what you make yourself worthy of.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/you-only-deserve-what-you-make-yourself-worthy-of/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [“You’re driving me crazy, Blaire. Insane, baby. Fucking insane,”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/you-re-driving-me-crazy-blaire-insane-baby-fucking-insane/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [“I love you, Blaire. I'm so damn proud of the fact you're going to be the mother of my son. I want everyone to…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/i-love-you-blaire-i-m-so-damn-proud-of-the-fact-you-re-going-to-be/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [I know being with me is not easy. But I want you to understand no one has me, or has ever had me, except…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/i-know-being-with-me-is-not-easy-but-i-want-you-to-understand-no-one/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [“We Were young. He didn't love me. He just thought he did. Simple as that.- Blaire Lynn”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/we-were-young-he-didn-t-love-me-he-just-thought-he-did-simple-as-that/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [Was it possible I'd labeled him incorrectly? Shallow jocksdidn't overcome adversity and accomplish the things Leif had. I'd labeled him, not even knowing him.…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/was-it-possible-i-d-labeled-him-incorrectly-shallow-jocksdidn-t/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [“Depressed people tended to end things on special occasions and party goers drank too much and then got behind the wheels of vehicles. But…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/depressed-people-tended-to-end-things-on-special-occasions-and-party/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [I'm not going to hurt her. I know she's special and I tried to stay away, but when I'm with I don't feel so…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/i-m-not-going-to-hurt-her-i-know-she-s-special-and-i-tried-to-stay/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [“Leaning down, I pressed a kiss to her head. "I will fix this. I swear I will make it right. I love you enough…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/leaning-down-i-pressed-a-kiss-to-her-head-i-will-fix-this-i-swear-i/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [“Sawyer’s eyes met mine over his father’s shoulder. I could see the concern in them. I knew what he was thinking. The little shit…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/sawyer-s-eyes-met-mine-over-his-father-s-shoulder-i-could-see-the/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [You proved to be worthy of my devotion. Of Death’s...love](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/you-proved-to-be-worthy-of-my-devotion-of-death-s-love/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) > [I relaxed. “I would imagine in your world, girls are much different than here in the real world. I’m sure if you spent some…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/abbi-glines/i-relaxed-i-would-imagine-in-your-world-girls-are-much-different-than/) [Abbi Glines](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) [Explore all 544 Abbi Glines quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/abbi-glines/) ## More Ashes quotes > [You can flush my ashes down the toilet, for all I care.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/you-can-flush-my-ashes-down-the-toilet-for-all-i-care/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [All that is gold does not glitter, Not all those who wander are lost; The old that is strong does not wither, Deep roots…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/anonymous/all-that-is-gold-does-not-glitter-not-all-those-who-wander-are-lost/) [Anonymous](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/anonymous/) > [I don't want to have a gravestone. I want to have all my friends burn me and then snort the ashes. I think that's…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/marilyn-manson/i-don-t-want-to-have-a-gravestone-i-want-to-have-all-my-friends-burn/) [Marilyn Manson](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/marilyn-manson/) > [You know how this is: if I look at the crystal moon, at the red branch of the slow autumn at my window, if…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/pablo-neruda/you-know-how-this-is-if-i-look-at-the-crystal-moon-at-the-red-branch/) [Pablo Neruda](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/pablo-neruda/) > [He said that he will never let you cry,he will always be there for you no matter how hard the situation is,that he will…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/zhra/he-said-that-he-will-never-let-you-cry-he-will-always-be-there-for/) [Zhra](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/zhra/) > [“The past is to be learned from but not lived in. 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Let us be free.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/madeline-miller/bury-us-and-mark-our-names-above-let-us-be-free/) [Madeline Miller](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/madeline-miller/) > [There is nothing quite like an Ashes trip Down Under.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/james-anderson/there-is-nothing-quite-like-an-ashes-trip-down-under/) [James Anderson](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/james-anderson/) > [I think momentum is huge in sport, especially in a series like the Ashes.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/ben-stokes/i-think-momentum-is-huge-in-sport-especially-in-a-series-like-the/) [Ben Stokes](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/ben-stokes/) > [Mark how fleeting and paltry is the estate of man-yesterday in embryo, tomorrow a mummy or ashes. 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